Self-Hypnosis for Sleep: A How-to Guide
Self-hynosis is a state of deep absorption, in which individuals can use the power of suggestion to produce change.
All Hypnosis is Self-Hypnosis
Hypnosis is a state of deep absorption, in which individuals lose awareness of their surroundings, and become highly suggestible. All hypnosis is self-hypnosis, meaning that individuals allow themselves to enter this trance-like state, rather than being forced to do so by someone else. When used with wisdom, the power of suggestion can be an effective means of making positive changes in peoples lives.
Everyone has experienced the state of hypnosis, although not everyone is aware that they have been in a trance-like state, and not everyone uses the terminology of hypnosis. Some common examples of trance-like states include watching television, daydreaming, and becoming absorbed by work or play. As you attempt to intentionally use self-hypnosis in your life, try to remember that you have done this before, many times, so you can definitely do it again.
One way in which I apply self-hypnosis in my clinical practice is for challenges surrounding falling asleep and staying asleep. I have taught this strategy to family members, friends and patients, and I use it myself. Many of us have found it very helpful for those restless nights when sleep does not come easily, for falling asleep on overnight flights, and any other situation in which you feel you need a little extra help with sleep.
Helpful Tips:
Please do not use self-hypnosis for sleep in any scenario during which it would be dangerous for you to fall asleep (i.e. driving, operating machinery, etc).
You can choose to memorize this script, and recite it to yourself in your mind, or you may prefer to use a recording of your own voice.
Step 1. Prepare to Sleep:
Prepare to sleep by finding a comfortable position, laying in your usual location for sleep (for most people, this will be in their bed).
If you are on an airplane or train, get as comfortable as you can while sitting up.
Decide for yourself what you’d like your sleep to do for you – do you want your sleep to be restful? Restorative? Calming? Healing? Choose three benefits you would like to experience while you sleep, and insert these into the following script where the letters are in bold.
Step 2. Self-Hypnosis for Sleep Script:
1. Say to yourself (in your mind, not out loud):
“I will count down from 10 to 1, and as I count down from 10 to 1, I will become progressively more relaxed, letting go of all of the tension in my body, letting go of all of the unnecessary thoughts in my mind….becoming so relaxed, and so tired, that by the time I reach the number 1, I will fall into a deep, restful, restorative sleep”.
2. Pause for several seconds.
3. Then say to yourself:
“10…starting to relax now, letting go of all of the tension in my body, letting go of all of the unnecessary thoughts in my mind…becoming so relaxed, and so tired, that by the time I reach the number 1, I will fall into a deep, restful, restorative sleep”
4. Pause for several seconds.
5. Then say to yourself:
“9… feeling more relaxed now, letting go of all of the unnecessary tension in my body, letting go of all of the unnecessary thoughts in my mind… …becoming so relaxed, and so tired, that by the time I reach the number 1, I will fall into a deep, restful, restorative sleep”
6. Pause.
7. Then say to yourself:
“8…. feeling even more relaxed now, more and more relaxed, letting go of all of the unnecessary tension in my body, letting go all of the unnecessary thoughts in my mind… …becoming so relaxed, and so tired, that by the time I reach the number 1, I will fall into a deep, restful, restorative sleep”
8. Continue to repeat this script for numbers 7 through 1… if you are still awake after you reach the number 1, then repeat the entire script.
In my experience, I usually fall asleep by the time I reach the number 6…
I hope you find this helpful, and may you enjoy your deep, restful, and restorative sleep…